Divorce

If you have considered divorce, then you have already seperated your life from the other person. The trust has been broken. Now you may not want to look at anything right now if this is an attempt to further your divorce, but before any divorce, a person needs to look at what they really want in life. Sometimes it is happiness, sometimes love or acceptance, sometimes it is friendship. What is it for you?
      Look at your life. If you were divorced right now, what would you do first. Is it to find a better relationship?  If it is, then you are in a world of hurt. I can almost gaurantee that any relationship you get into in the near future will be tainted by this one. Plus, if you didn't realize it, some of the problem is you. NOW I SAID SOME. Not all or most or a little. It doesn't matter. That some will haunt you, especially if any new relationship picks up on it and calls you on it. So the first thing I will tell you is - give yourself time to evaluate yourself and your faults, desires, failures, and successes. This can be fulfilling. I'll give you the hint. IF I WERE MARRIED TO YOU AND YOU TOLD ME ALL YOUR FAULTS. MY LOVE WOULD SAY I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT. Do you get it? Finding out you are at fault for something is ok. It is the shame that feels terrible which is not love. So cast that aside and begin to explore who you are.