Broken Families, Broken lives

These videos show the negative side of divorce because it is real. I know that the marriage has a lot of negative feelings also. I am going through some of the same feelings. I have seperated from my wife three times. They didn't last long but each time I realized more that what I really needed was to let go of her. I desired her love so much that it was destroying me. Now, it still hurts but at least it doesn't destroy me. I am building a lot of male friends that support me. That helps a lot. I am even allowing my relationship with my wife to die a little. However, I am also learning that I can still pursue her and love her even though the quantity isn't there, I still look for a strong desire in me to be with her so I can pursue her once in awhile strongly, hoping she will realize she wants to love me back. If I pursue her to strong, it will smother her. It is a hard balance. In some ways it is like dating again. But this time, it may be a longer process. Now, I could end it all and just divorce. But as these vidoes truly portray, that doesn't gaurantee that the next marriage will be any better. It may even be worse. We think we know people and remember PEOPLE CAN CHANGE - AND POSSIBLY FOR THE WORSE. So mister right or Misses Awesome may turn into hell itself. So watch these videos and then go to heywhatever.info to get uplifted.